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Being Naked

Oct 14, 2024

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Once a friend of mine asked me, ‘Do you show your Phone to your wife?’, I said ‘Yes’, then he said ‘Oh! But what if she sees your Facebook account or WhatsApp chats?’ and I said ‘Yeah, what about it?’  He said ‘Hey, what about Privacy?’ I said, ‘I don't care! What she sees in my Phone and what she reads, it’s all fine.’

He was kind of shocked, so I said ‘Hey, she is your wife! why not to share everything with her? Isn't she is your ‘life partner?’, you share your life with her so why not to share all things with her?' Then he said ‘But, you must have “Your Space”, you must have some privacy’, I said ‘come on, what privacy?’ I don't think this invades my privacy at all and I don't think you need that much privacy in your life that you can't share these thing with your life partner!!! Heck you are naked in front of that person at so many nights and even that person is also naked in front of you!!! 


If you can bear all and share physically each other then why not share the mind???”

I think we should not give the concept called "My Privacy", 'Me time', so much importance, as you do not to share it with you life partner. The moment you are with your life partner, everything should be shared!!! You can have two opinions on same thing, you can have difference on concepts, ideas, thoughts but that should not stop you to share things with him/her.


Forget your Phone, email, Facebook, WhatsApp and Instagram & who do you follow or with whom you do chatting, it doesn't matter… your partner is your best friend… you must have a ‘Naked Mind’ and not just body with your life partner.

It’s okay if you hide something from your life partner may be temporary for some reason like she or he should not get disturb or hurt, or there is no mind-space right now or something that is minor, that’s fine. But things in your life like sharing your passwords, money, wealth is nothing when you share your passion, your love. 

You must share your ego, sorrows, weakness, fear, achievements, strength, mischiefs, everything in your life with your partner.  


She or he should know your history, what has happened till date with you & your mind. I'm not saying share everything immediately, but share things over period of time. As they are going to share future with you, they should understand what you are going through, so as to help you both go through the hardship of Life. 

Share the good, the bad & the ugly things about you. Share your mind and what is happening in your mind. You can like more people, you can love more people, but you can be with only one person as life partner, you can be naked to just this person, that's what life is with the partner.

Love is when you are with them not just physically, but also mentally, emotionally & physiologically. You have to be Fully naked with this person – the most important thing in your life.

- Vivek Dani

Oct 14, 2024

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